Dad Update

Jan. 26th, 2006 08:22 am
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My dad just passed.

He could have gone anytime over the past two days (and almost did,) but he waited until this morning. I sent Deb in my place, because she hadn't been in since Monday and because I was very unpleasantly hit with a cold last night. She was with him - had just said "Hello" and held his hand, and he went.

Which means I am right - I told her to go in because he was waiting for her!

His suffering is over.

Rachel and Justin have both heard the news, and are sad, but handling it well.

I'll post a proper update later, as I expect we'll be making arrangements today, and I want to get all that in place before announcing details.

Thank you all for your comments, love, and support.

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Date: 2006-01-26 05:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eudaimonia.livejournal.com
Much sympathies, I understand your relief. (hugs)

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Date: 2006-01-26 06:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] windswept.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry, but I'm glad it brings you some relief to see his suffering end.

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Date: 2006-01-26 06:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] trouvera.livejournal.com
Many sympathies.

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Date: 2006-01-26 06:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bookgirlwa.livejournal.com
My condolences to you and your family.

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Date: 2006-01-26 06:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tikireaper.livejournal.com
May I offer my most sincere condolences?
I'm so sorry.

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Date: 2006-01-26 06:46 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] wolfette
{{{{hugs}}}}

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Date: 2006-01-26 07:02 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I'm sorry to hear that, and in a strange way happy for him and you, it sounded like it was something that was timely and waiting any longer would be just a prolongation of agony for him. *Hugs*

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Date: 2006-01-26 07:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wyvernfriend.livejournal.com
I'm sorry to hear that, and in a strange way happy for him and you, it sounded like it was something that was timely and waiting any longer would be just a prolongation of agony for him. *Hugs*

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Date: 2006-01-26 07:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] malinaldarose.livejournal.com
Allow me to offer my condolences. I will be thinking of you and your family.

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Date: 2006-01-26 07:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] celticess.livejournal.com
*hugs* My condolences to you and your family.

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Date: 2006-01-26 07:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kay-brooke.livejournal.com
You have my sympathies.

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Date: 2006-01-26 08:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jadecat9.livejournal.com
*hugs*

I'm so sorry. But at least his suffering is over.

Much love and hugs to the your family during the grieving & healing process

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Date: 2006-01-26 09:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nyxalinth.livejournal.com
(hugs) I'm sorry to hear it.

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Date: 2006-01-26 09:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyazure.livejournal.com
So sorry for your loss...{{hugs}}

My thoughts are with you and your family.

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Date: 2006-01-26 09:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] snowy-owlet.livejournal.com
I wish him a good journey.

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Date: 2006-01-26 09:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rowancat.livejournal.com
Condolences and i hope he has an enjoyable afterlife whatever it may be.

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Date: 2006-01-26 09:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wintersweet.livejournal.com
My condolences. Take care of yourself.

I'll add my condolences to all the others.

Date: 2006-01-26 09:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] salegamine.livejournal.com
I hope that the good memories you have of your dad will sustain you and you family through this hard time.

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Date: 2006-01-26 10:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belgatherial.livejournal.com
What can i say. I am thinking of you and your family.

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Date: 2006-01-26 10:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ashyraine.livejournal.com
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{you}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

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Date: 2006-01-26 11:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sage-and-sea.livejournal.com
My sympathy. I know that mingled feeling of relief and grief.

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Date: 2006-01-26 12:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jenjiyana.livejournal.com
*hug* condolences to you and your family :/

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Date: 2006-01-26 01:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] puddock.livejournal.com
Much sympathy to you and yours.

Your loss

Date: 2006-01-26 01:25 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Everett,
I am sorry to hear about your Dad. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
--Brian

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Date: 2006-01-26 02:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kk1raven.livejournal.com
My condolences to you and all of your family.

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Date: 2006-01-26 05:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lab-rattus.livejournal.com
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers for you and your family.

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Date: 2006-01-26 05:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pecosdave.livejournal.com
At a loss for words, but you do have my sympathies.

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Date: 2006-01-26 06:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] opakele.livejournal.com
I do understand your relief, but I am still so sad. Hope your mom is doing okay. Just get through the next few days and you will be able to reflect.

My sincere sympathy. Give your mom a hug for me.

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Date: 2006-01-26 07:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sikander7.livejournal.com
My sympathies too. Take care of your mother and family.

I am so sorry for you and your family.

Date: 2006-01-26 07:25 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Please know that I am so upset by your loss. Paul was a great co-worker and I will miss seeing him every day.
Lori

My condolences

Date: 2006-01-27 03:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] haze69.livejournal.com
I'm sorry to hear about your dad. I hope you take comfort in your family and knowing he is not suffering anymore. I remembered something you said so many years ago when we first met. . . how old were we?? Late teens to early twenties. I remember you talking about your dad and saying "My dad is awesome!" And you had a wonderful smile on your face. I remember thinking how great that was and what an exceptional person he must be.
Remember that now, hold that in your heart always, because he felt the same about you.

Love and Sympathy!!

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Date: 2006-01-27 07:02 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and yours...

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Date: 2006-01-27 07:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cissa.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry- my thoughts are with you and yours.

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Date: 2006-01-28 12:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] silme.livejournal.com
My condolences to you and your family. Hold him in your heart forever.

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Date: 2006-01-28 04:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fizzy-oh.livejournal.com
Our thoughts are with you and your family. Very saddening to hear this news, but yes, also a relief that he is now in peace. Take care.

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Date: 2006-01-30 11:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mert-mt-bc.livejournal.com
So sorry for your loss.

Condolences on your Father's passing

Date: 2006-02-04 09:23 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Hi Everett,
I am very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing away.
Arlene and I wish all the best for you and your family during this painful time. If there is anything we can do please let us know. You have our phone # and email address. I remember meeting your Dad a few years ago whe he came to our Moravian Bookstore poetry reading and he seemed like a really nice guy. This must be a tough time for you now and I wish I could say something that would help ease your pain a bit. If you ever want to talk please let me know. Hope to talk with you soon...Dave

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